How to Win My Ex Back – Whether to Get Together With an Ex
How to Win My Ex Back – Whether to Get Together With an Ex
It is not uncommon for many people to desire winning back their ex after a break up. Sometimes, this is a good thing. After resolving the root of the problem that causes the break up, they can become more loving than ever.
However, there are also situations whereby getting back together is not necessary the best decision for both parties. Most probably, you have heard of couples getting back together but breaking up again soon after. Definitely, you do not want that to happen to you. You do not wish to go through the pain of a break up twice.
So, if you really want to win your ex back, how can you decide whether you should get back together with your ex.
Well, perhaps the first question that you should ask yourself is why do you want to win your ex back. The answer to this question is very important. Do you still love him/her? Now, this question can be a bit tricky.
Sometimes, people want to win their ex back, not out of love, but out of desperation. It is important to be honest with yourself. If you want to win your ex back because you think you won’t be able to live without him/her, then maybe what you need to do now is not to win your ex back, but to win yourself back.
The next question that you want to ask yourself is whether you are willing to resolve any existing problems in your relationship. Every break up occurs for a reason. Sometimes, in order to resolve the problem, you may be required to make certain sacrifice, maybe by changing for the better.
Are you willing to do that? If your answer is no, you may want to think twice before getting back together. Of course, there are also factors that are outside your control but you will need to consider them.
What is your ex’s intention. If your ex is not interested in getting back together, no matter what you do, then it may be time for you to move on as well. Or maybe you know your ex will not change for the sake of the relationship or maybe your ex is not willing to resolve the problems together with you.
In any of the situation described above, it may be in your best interest not to get back together with your ex. However, if both parties are willing to work together and still love each other, then it is a good sign that both of you should be back together.
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January 29th, 2010 at 3:46 pm
Do Tax incentives, disincentives or benefit rules really affect whether people live together?
And does it affect whether people decide to have children or not? I cant imagine it does? What do others think?
January 29th, 2010 at 8:48 pm
Not for you, but it does for others.
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January 29th, 2010 at 8:50 pm
yes they do, most scroungers know that living apart brings in far more bacon than living as a couple, that is why they lie and cheat the system, i wanted more children few years ago and stuck with the 2 i’ve got because i could not afford anymore as i would not be entitled to benefits, had i been able to have more kids and get paid for it then of course it would have swayed my decision.
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January 29th, 2010 at 8:52 pm
no, it just determines weather to lie or not.
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January 29th, 2010 at 8:54 pm
Depends how far down the economic scale you are. Tax wise there is no advantage in being married. There are two points her which may throw some light on the matter. people who marry then move in together tend to make a marriage work for longer . Those who live together then marry tend to separate soon after. This is probably false because those who have lived together first are often at the end of the relationship when they decide to marry thinking it will "make things right" In other words I haven’t a clue
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January 29th, 2010 at 8:56 pm
Hi Puddy, yes they do. I have worked all my life and paid all my taxes, nat ins, pension, etc etc. My partner has done the same. We would like to live together, I would say we are somewhat older than you! We both have children by previous partners, both run small businesses and have both worked and paid to put them through education etc. We both have our own homes and mortgages. My partner has now had 5 serious eye operations and receives some help. He is very proud and still working, I help him. We cannot live together. The amounts we would lose, be charged, plus I would be considered his carer and have to give up my business is crippling. We are in a no win situation through being hard working and honest all our lives. I am extremely upset. We have looked at everything from all angles and to get married would also affect our children later when we die. We live 4 miles apart in our own homes. I have no idea what we are going to do when we are old or infirm, I try not to think about it. The Government has raised my pension age, stolen my other pension, stolen my NHS and dental benefits, cheated me on my Council Tax, squandered my tax money and lied and is still trying to get its hands on anything I may try to save for a rainy day. Yup this is a very bitter woman answering your question. By the way, did you know that there are only a limited number of times my partner can stay here in my property (his is being renovated and he sleeps at his in a van at the moment). If he stays more than a certain number of nights during the year with me we are considered co-habiting so it is heads the establishment win and tails we lose!
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January 29th, 2010 at 8:58 pm
Yes it does. Not for everyone but it does for enough
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